For most of this last decade, Christian Carter has been a leading light on dating advice for women. With his deeply sourced compassion for women (and the men you love) and the breadth of his psychological understanding, Christian has become …
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How Men “Feel” Love
You know it already – but if you are like most women, you forget it at key moments…
Men feel love – they “process” love – they “understand” love – differently than you do.
Tell me if this sounds familiar…
Three Crucial Insights Into Why Men Lie
Why does anybody lie?
Because they are afraid of something. Actually they are afraid of two specific things.
And when we are afraid of these things, love and commitment is impossible.
Almost every day, I hear from women who ask …
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3 Steps To Get Him Devoted To You
Yesterday, I began to explain to you the exquisite process of inviting a man into his deepest desire, which is to be a HERO for a woman who supports, appreciates and loves him.
Without someone to love us and celebrate …
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Good Men Don’t Want To Be Your “Prince” But They Do Want to Be Your Knight
I get it.
You’ve been dating. You’ve been frustrated. Men don’t seem to be recognizing you for the beautiful, kind, wise, sensual woman you actually are.
And yes, there’s a reason they’ve not “getting” you.
My mission is to end …
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Radical Thoughts on Your “Soulmate”
Everybody wants to win the lottery.
Everybody wants to “Pass Go” and collect 200 dollars.
Everybody wants the big score, the EZ Pass, the doorman’s mitt on the small of your back as he guides you past the velvet rope.
Porn, Strip Clubs, Imagination and Your Man
Recently, I received a letter from a reader who asked me if I thought it was a good idea to put a “no porn” and “no strip-clubs” policy on her dating profile.
I think it’s a terrible idea.
First, …
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The Communication Gap

A gap exists in the world of dating, and I’m here to close it.
This gap is millions of miles wide, and very deep—a seemingly infinite chasm where many dates and relationships fall to their peril.
This gap/chasm is communication, …
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Food For Thought

Today, I answer an urgent question from one of our Right Man Forever readers who has successfully—this is a yay—found a man, and entered a relationship with him:
Dear Adam,
I am currently in a relationship and am happy about …
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The Golden Rule, Karma And You: Giving What You Want To Receive

I have to admit that my perspective on dating is a little skewed because I live in Los Angeles.
It is a land of transience, a wild, beachy, social pool of flimsy fashion and facial symmetry.
I often get asked:
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